Prioritizing & Enhancing Self Care: A Sustainable Approach

Prioritizing Self-Care:

Self-care. It’s a term we hear constantly, but what does it truly mean? Self-care goes beyond bubble baths and face masks (although those can be part of it!). It’s a holistic approach to nurturing your well-being across all aspects of life: physical, mental, emotional, and even spiritual.

Here at Thrive Ahead, we believe self-care is a pillar of a healthy and fulfilling life. But we also understand it can feel overwhelming. This post is designed to help you ditch the shame, identify sustainable practices, and create a self-care routine that truly works for you.

Understanding Your Needs

The first step to effective self-care is understanding your individual needs. It’s not a one-size-fits-all solution. What works for your best friend might not be the answer for you.

Here are some common challenges people face with self-care:

  • Identifying what truly replenishes your energy. We know that doom scrolling and now “rotting” as they say ;), isn’t self-care. Let’s find what actually works, rejuvenates and energizes you for the long term.
  • The difference between quick fixes and long-term strategies. Sustainable self-care is about building habits that support your overall well-being.
  • Feeling lost or overwhelmed. It’s okay not to have all the answers right away! Self care is a journey with practices that are going to change throughout your life, what do you need at this stage of life with all that you have going on? See if you can quiet the judgment about what used to work and no longer does.

Quick Fixes vs. Long-Term Strategies

Imagine a two-column chart. On the left side, list “Energy Stealing” tactics:

  • Mindlessly scrolling social media – doom scrolling
  • Reaching for sugary snacks
  • Ignoring your body’s need for sleep and staying up too late
  • Consuming too many anxiety producing podcasts or movies
  • Saying “yes” too much

On the right side, list “Energizing Rest” practices:

  • Taking a mindful walk in nature
  • Taking the time to prepare a healthy and nourishing meal
  • Connecting with friends who really get you after a long day
  • Planting some literal seeds in the dirt-filled pot on your balcony and spending some time with them daily 
  • Trying a new activity out in the world: reading, pottery, knitting, kayaking, visiting a new museum, restaurant or art fest (if you’re the introverted/quiet kind)

See the difference? Long-term self-care strategies are about investing in your well-being, not just temporarily numbing stress.

Building a Sustainable Routine

Self-care shouldn’t be a source of shame or guilt. It’s about learning, exploring, and finding what works for you. Here are some tips:

  • Personalize it! Consider your unique needs, relationships, work style, and lifestyle when crafting your self-care routine.
  • Explore with your support system. Talk to friends, mentors, and even professionals about self-care practices that resonate with you and how they have changed over time.
  • Start small and build gradually. Don’t try to overhaul your life overnight. That’s a recipe for burnout… like the time I did three workouts in a day because I was MOTIVATED & INSPIRED but then couldn’t walk for the next week…. Please, begin with small, sustainable changes you can stick with. 

Real-Life Examples

Let’s see how different self-care practices can impact your long-term well-being:

  • Regular exercise: Boosts energy levels, improves mood, and promotes better sleep.

    For example, take Nina: Nina used to struggle with low energy and trouble sleeping. Stuck at a desk job, exercise felt like a distant memory. One day, she decided to try short morning walks in the warmer months and short stretches in the cooler months. Starting with just 15 minutes, she was amazed by the results. Her energy levels soared, her mood brightened, and most importantly, she finally started sleeping through the night! Now, Nina can’t imagine starting her day without a refreshing walk or relaxing stretch.

  • Healthy eating: Provides your body with the nutrients it needs to thrive.

    For example, take David: David’s mornings used to be a struggle. No matter how many hours he slept, a thick fog clouded his mind. Daily tasks felt like wading through mud, and focus was a distant memory. A friend, noticing his struggle, suggested mindful eating. Initially skeptical, David gave it a shot. He started by ditching some sugary cereal and pastries he relied on for quick energy. Instead, he focused on whole foods: colorful fruits and vegetables, lean protein, and whole grains. Within just weeks, the fog began to lift. His mind felt sharp, and a newfound energy coursed through him. David now sees food as more than just sustenance – it’s fuel for his body and mind.

  • Mindfulness practices: Reduces stress, enhances focus, and improves emotional regulation.

    For example, take Eli: Juggling work, family, and social commitments used to leave Eli constantly stressed and overwhelmed. Their mind felt like a million tabs open at once! Meditation seemed intimidating, but they finally decided to give it a try. Even just 5 minutes a day of focusing on their breath made a huge difference. Eli’s anxiety decreased, and they began approaching challenges with a calmer, clearer mind. It’s amazing how a few minutes of quiet reflection can have such a powerful impact.

Action Steps & Inspiration

Ready to get started? Here are some practical steps you can take today:

  • Identify one area of your life that feels depleted. What aspect of your well-being needs the most attention right now?


    • For example, at Thrive Ahead Co. we believe wellness is a holistic way of being. We live by the idea that the 7 Pillars of Wellness are crucial in obtaining overall balance.

      How are you doing in these areas, what’s going well and where do you want to focus right now?

      • Sleep
      • Mental Health
      • Nutrition
      • Movement
      • Self-Care
      • Spirituality
      • Community
  • Research self-care practices that target that area. Maybe there’s a new podcast that you would find helpful to build your repertoire.
  • A fun way to get some new ideas on self care is with an AI assistant by sharing what you already do and prompt it to help you expand your toolbox depending on the season, your financial constraints or your time of day preference.
  • Choose one or two practices to experiment with this week. Start small and see how you feel.

Words of Wisdom from Our Team

“Self-care is not selfish, it’s essential. When you take care of yourself, you’re better equipped to handle life’s challenges and be present for the people you love.” 

    About the Author

    Jenn is the amazing founder behind Thrive Ahead Co. and is a licensed clinical professional counselor.  Currently, she is accepting clients for her career counseling services.  Jenn is an active guide for her clients, is involved, approachable and attentive. “You can bet that in a tough session, we’ll still find ways to connect with humor as I truly believe when used well it’s one of the most integrating skills we can have, to know and hold this lightness at the same time as the seriousness and even pain that life brings us.  

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